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    10/18/2009

    重生或是毁灭

    在一段儿估计只有自己看得懂的语言里。要记录一件没有地方诉说的事情。确实挺需要技巧的。
    很多时候,不懂得珍惜是件很可怕的事情。大家教育大家的时候,总是说要珍惜各种各样的情感——父母,朋友,各式亲人,甚至路人甲乙丙丁……。在那无数书本上长篇累牍的讲过无数遍,以及毫无吝惜的举出无数例子讲解了无数人事后追悔莫及的经历。
    可是现实呢?照样是前赴后继的办错事,悔恨,再办错事,再悔恨。简直不过就是在为那些理论添砖加瓦罢了。在这个匆忙人世中,有谁真正停下来好好想过,该如何对待一份感情,该如何珍惜拥有的一切?大多数人不过是在辉煌的进行曲中,兴奋的睁大双眼,挺胸抬头,阔步向前。肆意践踏着为之付出感情的群体。直到没有回头路的时候,才懂得什么叫做恐惧,什么叫做无依。又是何苦呢?
    再来,身处绝处自然不得不停下,于是,有空回想一下过去,追悔莫及。有些人因为悔恨交加,从此倒下;而有些人则会化悔恨为力量,勇敢地站起来。当然,其实站起来不站起来在我看来,都是一样的结果。无知者无畏,谁知道那个勇敢站起来的人到底是因为无知还是因为真的有勇气?谁知道那些所谓认命的人,是否是因为知道自己的本质是无法改变的,而决定放弃?
    认清自己是一个很大的课题。在一个纷繁的事件里,我相信每个人都会或多或少的失去自己。改变初衷。这一生一灭,没有什么好与坏,对与错。有的就是你有没有在风口浪尖真正停下来想过——而且还得保佑自己有一双慧眼,省得停都停下来了还看错了!
     
     
    从没设想过今年此日会有这样一番想法,从没想过我会有这样的感触。拜谁所赐呢?我还是不要拜了。从今以后,拜佛还是要拜我自己。就算是无知,我也要再试一次。
     
    嗯,突然想起了郑智化,嗯嗯
     

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    ying chenwrote:
    special day, special blog :)
    Oct. 24
    Lang Gouwrote:
    生日快乐,mm
    Oct. 19
    显祖 宋wrote:
    生日快乐!

    咋了这是?确实没看明白,所以谈不上深刻。
    但无论什么,结论就是既无法重生也不会毁灭。
    因为生活是现实的,这两个都不现实。

    说实话,生日蛋糕真好看,呵呵。
    还是简单幸福快乐的生活吧。:)
    Oct. 19
    wrote:
    同感触。。。生日快乐~
    Oct. 19
    Shiwrote:
    生日快乐:)
    啊啊,咋啦啊……这是
    Oct. 18
    Sophie Chewrote:
    Happy B-day!! 嗯,生日时候的自省,很深刻。
    Oct. 18
    Tinawrote:
    好深刻!生日快乐~~
    Oct. 18
    Linwrote:
    生日快乐,mm!
    Oct. 18
    ohThree pkuwrote:
    咋了?
    BTW. 把郑智换成郑智化中国足球队也不会有什么提高的。
    Oct. 18

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